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ما الذي يخبرك به طفلك غير اللفظي المصاب بالتوحد؟

قبل أن يتعلم الطفل الكلام ، يستخدم الآباء الجدد لعبة التجربة والخطأ لمعرفة ما يحتاجه طفلهم. بالنسبة للطفل غير اللفظي في طيف التوحد ، يمكن أن تمتد فترة التجربة والخطأ هذه إلى سنوات.

ومع ذلك ، لا يزال الأطفال الذين يفتقرون إلى المهارات اللفظية يتواصلون ، ويتمتع الآباء بمكانة فريدة لاستيعاب ما يحاولون قوله ، كما تقول محللة السلوك المعتمد من مجلس الإدارة آشلي موسيال ، أم لستة أولاد وصاحبة ChildFirst Behavior Therapy ، وهو سلوك تطبيقي مزود العلاج التحاليل (ABA) في أرلينغتون هايتس.

في عملها كمحلل سلوك مرخص (LBA) ، تستخدم Musial علاج ABA ، وهي طريقة مثبتة إكلينيكيًا لبناء المهارات الاجتماعية والروتين والتواصل الفعال للأفراد المصابين بالتوحد وتحديات النمو الأخرى.

يقول ميوزيال:"عندما يتعلق الأمر باكتشاف ما يتواصل معه طفلك ، فإن الثقة لا تقل أهمية عن التقنية". "بصفتك أحد الوالدين ، أود أن أقول إنك أكثر تجهيزًا مما تعتقده".

حتى قبل أن يتلقوا تشخيص التوحد ، قد يدرك الآباء أن طفلهم لا يتفاعل مع أسمائهم ، أو يعترف بوجود آخرين أو يستجيب للطلبات.

"أسمع الكثير من الآباء يقولون ،" لست متأكدًا مما يدور في ذهنه "أو" لا أعرف ما الذي تفكر فيه. "قد يقولون إن سلوك أطفالهم يأتي من العدم . هناك مستوى من اليأس بالنسبة للوالدين. يقول Musial.

إيجاد طرق جديدة لقراءة طفلك

بدون كلمات لشرح ما يريده الطفل أو يحتاجه أو يفكر فيه ، يتم ترك الآباء والمعلمين ومقدمي الرعاية لربط النقاط. Despite their exhaustive effort, that guesswork doesn’t always create an accurate picture, Musial explains.

“When we see hand flapping, pacing or rocking, we project what we might be feeling that would make us behave this way,” she says, adding that parents commonly assume their child is angry or anxious because their child is displaying behaviors similar to those that parents engage in when they are angry or anxious, such as pacing and hand wringing. It is normal and natural to see these connections. “In this way, parents are always trying to piece together what their child might be telling them.”

These repetitive behaviors, often referred to as stereotypy by researchers and therapists, are one of the most stigmatizing behaviors of autism and are often used to depict autism on television or in the media, Musial says.

But these behaviors, like anything else, provide clues to the many different needs or desires your child has. This is where confidence is key. Take note of when these behaviors are most likely to happen. Be observant and try to refrain from making conclusions after only one occurrence. Watch for at least three occurrences before concluding a behavior is happening for any particular reason; oftentimes, it requires more of a trend to be sure, Musial says.

Non-verbal kids with autism also use body-positioning and mimicking to signal a need or desire.

“Maybe you introduced a new food, like a goldfish cracker, at the kitchen counter. When they want it again, they position themselves in space in close proximity to where you gave it to them. They may look in the direction of where the goldfish are or where they were when you first offered them,” Musial says.

But if that signal is too subtle for the parent who is often juggling multiple tasks at once, the child might get upset.

“If standing there is not working, where else will they go to get their needs met? The desire still remains, and they are mimicking what happened last time they got goldfish crackers, so you might hear some irritated sounds followed by crying or a tantrum,” Musial says.

In short, the child may feel like they are communicating with the parent, but the parent may not be recognizing those behaviors as communication.

What comes before language

Other indicators for pre-language development that are identified in research include imitation, joint attention — which refers to shared focus of an object or activity with the child — and pointing at different objects.

“These are the indicators I look for when considering a language program for a child. If imitation, joint attention and pointing are not present, we focus on these skills first,” Musial says. She stresses the importance of working with an ABA therapy provider that has a strong understanding of verbal behavior and stays up to date on the latest research and literature.

“Look for Behavioral Health Center of Excellence (BHCOE) accreditation, which is important. Not every ABA center is accredited,” she says.

Just like trained ABA therapists, parents of a child on the autism spectrum have tools available to better understand their child, create effective routines and communicate for more satisfying outcomes. Utilizing the resources of ABA therapy can be a powerful way to learn how to use these tools, Musial says.

“Ultimately, you are the one who is responsible for your child. You are steering the ship,” she says. “You can choose providers and tell them what you want for your child, and that’s a beautiful thing. Parents have so many freedoms to help their children, but you do need to educate yourself so you can be a strong advocate and make decisions for your child.”

Learn more about ChildFirst Behavior Therapy at childfirstbehaviortherapy.com .


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